HOW WE MET

Our Story

Phoenix to Austin, 2021
Ramina and Shivraj
RAMINA & SHIVRAJ

They say there's an invisible string connecting the people who are meant to find each other, that no matter how far apart they are or how unlikely the circumstances may seem, they'll eventually find their way to one another.

Looking back, it's hard not to believe that was true for us. The summer of 2021, one spontaneous decision changed the course of our lives forever.

Every year Ramina celebrates her birthday by traveling somewhere new in search of great food. That year, a last minute decision led her to Austin, Texas, for one thing — BARBECUE! At the time Shiv was living in Austin, while Ramina was living in Phoenix.

On the evening of July 4th, one day before going back to Phoenix, Ramina and her girlfriends met a group of new friends on Rainey Street where they were invited to go watch the fireworks. With that one simple yes, Ramina & Shivraj's story quietly began.

What started with a simple exchange of Instagram handles turned into months of conversations, inside jokes, endless memes, and discovering that we shared the same love language: making each other laugh. Somewhere along the way, friendship became the foundation for something we never saw coming.

7 months later, Shiv boarded a plane to Phoenix for the first time for their first date at Shin-bay in Scottsdale. The moment we saw each other again, it felt as though we had known one another for a lifetime. The distance disappeared and we picked up right where it had been left off. From that moment on, loving each other became the easiest part. We chose each other through every mile, every plane ticket, every hello, every goodbye, and every season that brought us closer to this day.

the invisible string kept pulling us together

We often think about how easily we could have missed each other. One different decision. One different plan. One missed invitation. But somehow, against all odds, the invisible string kept pulling us together.

And now, here we are, getting ready to stand before God, our families and our friends to promise each other forever.

Ramina & Shivraj

NOVEMBER 20–21, 2026 • AUSTIN, TEXAS

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